Thursday, November 27, 2008

Sorry, No Love From Me

I have been hearing a lot about gay marriage and unisex bathrooms again. This seems to come and go from the news. The gay marriage thing I have no problem with saying I don’t agree with it, and I feel if this becomes legal it will only lead down a path I don’t want to go down. As for the unsex bathrooms...from the articles I have read it sounds like it’s more based on Transgender needs. Has anyone looked up the definition on Transgender? Let wikipedia help us out a little.

Transgender (IPA: /trænzˈdʒɛndɚ/, from (Latin) derivatives [trans gender role (woman or man) commonly, but not always, assigned at birth, as well as the role traditionally held by society.
Transgender is the state of one's "gender identity" (self-identification as woman, man, or neither) not matching one's "assigned sex" (identification by others as male or female based on physical/genetic sex). "Transgender" does not imply any specific form of sexual orientation; transgender people may identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, or asexual. The precise definition for transgender remains in flux, but includes:
"Of, relating to, or designating a person whose identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender roles, but combines or moves between these."[1]
"People who were assigned a sex, usually at birth and based on their genitals, but who feel that this is a false or incomplete description of themselves."[2]
"Non-identification with, or non-presentation as, the sex (and assumed gender) one was assigned at birth."[3]
A transgender individual may have characteristics that are normally associated with a particular gender, identify elsewhere on the traditional gender continuum, or exist outside of it as "other," "agender," "intergender," or "third gender". Transgender people may also identify as bigender, or along several places on either the traditional transgender continuum, or the more encompassing continuums which have been developed in response to the significantly more detailed studies done in recent years.[4]
Evolution of the term transgender
The term transgender (TG) was popularised in the 1970s[5] (but implied in the 1960s[6][7]) describing people who wanted to live cross-gender without sex reassignment surgery.[8] In the 1980s the term was expanded to an umbrella term,[9] and became popular as a means of uniting all those whose gender identity did not mesh with their gender assigned at birth.[10]
In the 1990s, the term took on a political dimension[11][12] as an alliance covering all who have at some point not conformed to gender norms, and the term became used to question the validity of those norms[13] or pursue equal rights and anti-discrimination legislation,[14][15] leading to its widespread usage in the media, academic world and law.[16] The term continues to evolve.

As you read Transgender is simply a choice someone has made. That means at anytime this person can chose to change their mind again. Do you notice they are also bisexual and polysexual?

Bisexual definition:
Bisexuality refers to sexual behavior with[1] or attraction to people of both sexes, or to a bisexual orientation. People who have a bisexual orientation "can experience sexual, emotional, and affectional attraction to both their own sex and the opposite sex"; "it also refers to an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them."[2] It is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation. Individuals who do not experience sexual attraction to either sex are known as asexual.
According to Alfred Kinsey's research into human sexuality in the mid-20th century, many humans do not fall exclusively into heterosexual or homosexual classifications but somewhere between.[3] The Kinsey scale measures sexual attraction and behavior on a seven-point scale ranging from 0 (exclusively heterosexual) to 6 (exclusively homosexual). According to Kinsey's study, a substantial number of people fall within the range of 1 to 5 (between heterosexual and homosexual). Although Kinsey's methodology has been criticized, the scale is still widely used in describing the continuum of human sexuality.

Polysexual definition:
Polysexuality refers to people who are attracted to more than one gender or sex but do not wish to identify as bisexual because it implies that there are only two binary genders or sexes. Polysexuals are those people sexually attracted to many different sorts of ideas and characteristics. Polysexuality should not be confused with pansexuality; pan meaning all, and poly meaning many, though not necessarily all.
The term is also used as an appellation for relationships that are non-monogamous, but not necessarily intimate, polysexuals being those who engage in such relationships.
Polysexuality is a self-identifying term that is somewhat amorphous, as there is a wide variety of different people who use the term to describe themselves.

So what’s really the difference between Bi and Poly?

Let me explain where I’m going with this. States and small groups of people are trying to implement laws to make people happy that have no idea what will make them happy. Transgender people by definition are people who decide to be something different. So what will keep them from changing their mind tomorrow? Since I have no problem understanding what sex I am maybe tomorrow I’ll decide to be Asian. I’m not, but maybe I want to be. So I guess I should qualify for all Asian programs here in the US and all Asian people should adapt to me. Maybe in two months from now I'll decided that wasn’t for me and I should be African American. Now I should be able to go out and qualify for all African American programs and all African American people should adapt to me and my wants and needs.

I refuse to be sympathetic to this, and will not be forced to change bathrooms to please this type of culture. If you have only one bathroom and it can only accommodate one person at a time, yes it needs to be unisexual. If the bathroom can accommodate more than one person at a time, you need two bathrooms and it needs to be gender specific….period!

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